ask if dad had called with news of coming home...yes, im gonna pick him up in about an hour...great
gives me time to make dinner and get some housework done that has been neglected...h put a door back up for me...looks good, thanks ( i have asked a few times over the last 3 months)
problem...i ask him if he is gonna hang out with the girls when he and my dad get back...
BLOWS UP...he assumed i meant was he staying here...DID NOT ASK THAT!!!didnt even refer to it...
goes OFF on me he doesnt want to be married.....after the first of the year...
gets a bit worse...
continues to tell me the suffocated, trapped feelings...
is proud of my changes ( so he DOES see some)...however he CAN NOT AND WILL NOT take the chance ...it will all revert back...he needs to be his own person
EVERYTHING he has done over the past 10 years has been to make me happy and he cant do it anymore...
then the mlc line...first time for this one.
that i have no idea i am not a man... family all depends on him...food,house,money health insurance cars. he went on...
the pressure, the responsibilities...
i made the mistake of asking him not to make such big decisions due to his medical issues...
they have nothing to do with it after all...the low testosterone depression, 15 grand more in debt all text book...
PLEASE PLEASE steer me on what to do...i have that pit in my stomach again.
one thing he said that REALLY bothers me is that i was expecting him to move back home...never said or implied anything...what??
me 39 h 38 kids 9 and 6 h left 8/9/09 loving and devoted wife and mother still going...10 months later...
