The guy is really trying to sleep with me. UGGH! Wanted to know if I had my older kids tonight as he wanted to come and stay here. I said where? On the couch right? He said no, with you. I said sorry charlie, no booty call here. He said it was no booty call. Yeah right.
LOL. I don't know what to say. I would take the booty call if my W were offering. But then I am a guy to. lol. Stay strong and don't be the booty call.
Kevin
I thought you were both kidding. Appears not so. My mistake. Guess you like being here, stuck...
I don't know what to say either. I won't go there...came too close once before. I guess with MGF out of the picture he is getting needy again. Heck, its been a long time for me too but so do not want to be his booty call.
You don't know what to say? Really? Yes you do. Oh, and now he would like to "skip" the C/S this month? Tell him to ask the court; they ordered it, not you. Good grief. Are you really still tempted? Honey, this guy is SO not worth your time. My question is, when was he ever worth it? NO MATTER...don't bother answering. Just GAL and move on...and though I feel so sorry for your son and HIS d, they can still stay close. They don't have to watch you two self destruct as part of their teenage years. Good grief. Let them be close. Did you read up at all on Detachment? It's Very clear you need to do that. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
I think this part was directed towards me, but not 100% sure. Of course I know what to say. But doesn't it make me sound like a hypocrite if I say don't do it knowing I myself would with my W if the offer were there? But then I did distingish myself as a guy and I admit I have very little will power against that if it is offered by my W. lol.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I need to get those garnishment papers. Just need to get out of town to do it.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
I need to get those garnishment papers. Just need to get out of town to do it.
I think you are right. So what does it take for you to be able to get out of town to do it.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I need to get those garnishment papers. Just need to get out of town to do it.
I think you are right. So what does it take for you to be able to get out of town to do it.
Kevin
Honestly? Time and nerve. Its about an hour away so not real convenient. Nerve...i know it will piss exh off but before I get bashed on why do I care, I already know this.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Monday or Tuesday. From what I understand I have a stack of papers to fill out and then they interview me.
I forgot today is a visit day. I will be at high school for wrestling match. I was sorta hoping exh would do his visit there. Now, I am not so sure. We will find out.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Ok, so it sounds like you have a plan of when and how you can do it. Now it is just a matter of you deciding that is what you are going to do and moving forward with it. But that is a decision for you to make.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Honestly, if you need the money for the baby which it sounds like you do, perhaps it is best to move forward with it. But again, up to you.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
He just sent a text: "I will have your cs check tomorrow. Give baby a kiss for me. Don't think I will make it today."
Hmmm....obviously not happy. Sorry about you being mad at having to support your child.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
