Hard to say. Physically separated for 1 month, emotionally separated 2.5+ months.

I'm in a weird place where he talks a good game about working towards reconciliation, but doesn't really follow through or commit to wanting to be married.

Me: 30
Him: 31
M: 4 yrs; T: 10 yrs
No children
Bomb: 10/4/09
S: 11/16/09
D proceedings begin: January 2010