Just to be clear, we're not criticizing you. We're merely pointing out things you're doing or saying that didn't work in our situations. Stuck808 is saying the same things that I am in a slightly different way:
Showing her your actions = be a lighthouse instead.
Codependency = Man up
Make sense?
Yes, it does make perfect sense. And I know you aren't criticizing me. This is all good advice from real experience.
Kevin
Last edited by K4D; 12/16/0908:30 PM.
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...