I think you will shine more if you stand up to her and show her what S/D in the real world is like. Right now she has the best of both worlds. As you know I just had to stand up to mine and it was tough, and he may get angry, but this is the road HE chose.
I saw that. I see 25 commented on it to for you. The thing is she really isn't looking for anything from me except and occasional pick up of the kids and oh, she wanted me to replace 5 lightbulbs in her house that she can't reach of which I have not done yet. I told her I would while I was there a week ago, but forgot. I haven't made a special trip over there to do it either. Perhaps I should just not do it at all. If I do, I guess it is still letting her have her cake and eat it to.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...