You have made my day. I am currently laid up in bed and only have my Blackberry to reply with.
Once my H made the decision and told me he stayed with it. Keep on doing what you are doing as that has been what brought him back. Don't be hurt by him still wanting to shiels OW as much as possible from the pain he is causing her by this decision. That is quite normal. Keep it light and loving. You can gradually talk things through but for the moment he needs to feel wanted and safe. If you want to talk to me in the alternative universe I am the feminine version of an angel- I think he was called gabriel and she is always(le)_ wright his mail was hot but he live in the company (abbreviated) of the uk, as opposed to com.
If you want to see what the next stage may be like go and look at piecing and I wouls siggest Alisuddenly's thread.
Forgive the typo's- as I am on my Blackberry and still a bit woozy.
(((((Hugs)))))
Hope to hear from you
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
