Last night I was definitely mad but did not let it control my words or actions, my W hung up me when she started to lose control. This morning I had to call her to split the day b/c S9 was having stomach ache and needed to stay out of school. Asked my W if she would come over to the house to be with him the first part of the day and then I the second. ( We both have missed a lot of work) Turns out S9's stomach was just him being upset about the sitch and Christmas coming up, and whether or not Mom is going to be there Christmas morning. Welcome to divorce land. My W and I spoke today and agreed to meet at starbucks Saturday morning early to discuss talking to D13 who hates her mother. This will be in effect a R discussion, daunting for me b/c I know we are not supposed to do that but I need my D13 and my W to reconcile b/c it is affecting my S9. I believe my sitch is very unique, so I pulled the trigger on a DB coach today. Our first coaching session is on Friday. Has anyone out there had a DB coaching session? Do you feel like it helped?
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
