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Re: Need Some Qwik Advice
dburt #1895740 12/16/09 07:02 PM
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Text from her - " I wish you would answer my calls - I will go by myself today ( to atty meeting) and bring everything home to you"

Should I show resolve and be there anyway?

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Re: Need Some Qwik Advice
Coach #1895747 12/16/09 07:05 PM
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Coach,

Text from her " I wish you would answer my calls - I will go by myself ( to atty) and bring everything home to you"

Do I go anyway?

Greek, Puppy, All Y'all any words?

M43
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WAW is back & trying (no she was lying)
Close to callin' it busted but.... watching
Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.

Sometimes GOODBYE is a Second Chance.
Re: Need Some Qwik Advice
OnceBurdened #1895781 12/16/09 07:41 PM
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Now it's " Please call me i'm worried" after 16 calls.

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M43
W43
D11
S7
M18
T20
WAW is back & trying (no she was lying)
Close to callin' it busted but.... watching
Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.

Sometimes GOODBYE is a Second Chance.
Re: Need Some Qwik Advice
OnceBurdened #1895798 12/16/09 07:51 PM
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Txt back - "been real busy. I'll call when I get a break."


Wait a half hour and call. Don't listen to any BS, stick to your boundary (her behavior with OM.) If she asks about the mediator meeting tell her, "I am serious about not sharing you with another man." Her actions need to line up with her words.

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Re: Need Some Qwik Advice
Coach #1895831 12/16/09 08:17 PM
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Thanks coach.

M43
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WAW is back & trying (no she was lying)
Close to callin' it busted but.... watching
Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.

Sometimes GOODBYE is a Second Chance.
Re: Need Some Qwik Advice
Coach #1895840 12/16/09 08:21 PM
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Jeez Coach she is BLOWING my phone up.

M43
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D11
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M18
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WAW is back & trying (no she was lying)
Close to callin' it busted but.... watching
Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.

Sometimes GOODBYE is a Second Chance.
Re: Need Some Qwik Advice
OnceBurdened #1895844 12/16/09 08:23 PM
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Not attractive is it?

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Re: Need Some Qwik Advice
OnceBurdened #1895845 12/16/09 08:25 PM
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Sorry OB, I've been dealing with my own crisis with my D22. Long story (she's fine), but she's got a problem with her bank account and was in tears all day about it.

I agree with Coach's and Greek's advice.

Puppy
Re: Need Some Qwik Advice
Coach #1895859 12/16/09 08:34 PM
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So 7 calls and four texts in approx. 20 mins. went bye-

Her last one " R U Going?"

I responded to her with "I'm not going to share you with another man. r u going?"

No response since!

M43
W43
D11
S7
M18
T20
WAW is back & trying (no she was lying)
Close to callin' it busted but.... watching
Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.

Sometimes GOODBYE is a Second Chance.
Re: Need Some Qwik Advice
OnceBurdened #1895862 12/16/09 08:36 PM
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Quote:
I responded to her with "I'm not going to share you with another man. r u going?"


That's not manly to text that message.

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Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
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