I noticed that about the anger as well. Someone had told me to check out his threads a long time ago but I was having trouble finding them (I have a hard time figuring out the best way to search through archives and may have had his name a little bit wrong or something).
I do know I don't feel the anger directed at me any more by my H, at least outwardly, and haven't for months. I am extremely grateful for that. Really, it seemed to dissipate a great deal within a few weeks post bomb and was worse the weeks/months leading up to the bomb (and we are now at 9 months post - can't believe it!).
