good morning Angal - thanks for dropping by my thread - I appreciate your imput and a woman's point of view.
I see you have already gotten some good advice on your sit. I would only add that in addition to showing your H your commentment to staying sober that you let him see your commentment to him. As for me - that faith in my spouse's commentment to me helps me discredit any negitive thoughts about our R. Even though she dropped the bomb, and went through with D and got a final order, and she still will not say ILY, she is starting to do things and say things that convey that feeling and that gives me a lot of confort. Little things, and actions that convey that commentment to your H will give him a lot of confort. MTCW
