Yes, I guess I better really think about his feelings...and follow my own advice...Validate his feelings.
Bit of good news...a gal pal went into labor at my Halloween get together..she has a beautiful baby girl, Alexis!
Life is lovely....God is good. I'm happy today. Why? I choose to be! You can always see the best or the worst in a situation and I'm choosing to see the best. This is an opp for me to tell H that I understand why he might be worried and to reassure him that I am committed to staying sober and just need to have a sober social life....good friends to keep me company when he is away because I miss him soooo much! And it's good that he is a bit worried, that means he loves me! He is just afraid of being hurt again, so I need to reassure him that I am doing what I need to do to stay sober.