I just reached 17 months of separation. Until three months ago, he had an OW he was in love with. He recently had an epiphany and for the first time is focusing on why he was having affairs and fixing what is wrong within himself. He has said he doesn't love me and he doesn't know what he wants. I guess I'm waiting for him to figure it out and in the meantime, I am working on myself and becoming the person I want to be and the best choice for him.
Me - Faithful wife H - WAH Bomb: Fall/2009 - PA/EA with OW for 1 year Both in our early 40's M - 16 years w/ no kids T - 21 years Separated since July of 2008 - H living with his mother
