ok i sent the one bluerain suggested, he responded fairly quickly with:

They are my kids to, thanks for speaking to me and that was it.

I sent in a few texts msgs. so now what?

wait and let him meet what i put out. follow thru with until you show me genuine respect and support i will not speak to him, right!?

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline