BTW bestrong, will this scay situation (MIL) allow you and WH to get close?
newmama, I felt horrible wishing the same yesterday I am so sad because of it and still I wish that maybe it will let WH see some reality - it sounds horrible even typing it.He asked me yesterday not to tell anyone I know and today I met the wife of his best friend and she says: I heard his mum isn't well!?!" I asked her when his friend talked to him and she said a few days ago. And bang I am in tears again - I feel like I am the last person in the end of a long line. We spoke the first time about the high phone bills yesterday – that was before the news about MIL and he was telling me that he can’t understand they are so high and maybe his phone went on internet in his pocket and stayed connected and that he is calling around for jobs too. And then 2 things in my head happened – first of all I was listening to him, knowing that he is lying and it made me realize that the way he was telling it was the same as always – 8 months ago I would have believed it, no doubt – there was no telling that this was a lie – just this time I knew. And second I had a dejavu – I had listened to the same story before – years ago – I am trying to remember when exactly it happened – a very high phone bill and he told me the phone must have stayed connected in his pocket.
