Nope, you're good, I need all the perspective I can get at this point. I think it's time to call my lawyer and go ahead and file though. I don't see her changing and now with this threat of a high-powered lawyer, I don't feel so friendly anymore about anything she has said or done. If she's not going to act in an accountable manner regarding her indescrestions and get counseling and she feels like she doesn't have to pay CS, then I feel it's probably unlikely that she will come to her senses in a timely manner.
So, I will call tomorrow and take the rest of the paperwork to my lawyer.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!