AFWAW there's no point in arguing with her. She is not in her right mind. Someone in her right mind would recall that you STILL have the power to destroy both her and her OM's career. Someone in their right mind would NOT dare threaten anything that could affect custody of their children.
All of this is EMOTIONAL TERRORISM. You are right this is a control issue and a power play to return you to your rightful position in the M (i.e. submission)
Good points, thanks for this. Good support of what I was thinking already.
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This forum is here to repair marriages... so with that in mind I suggest you run deep and run silent - as in BLACK HOLE deep. Ignore ALL attempts to contact.
Yeah, I want to repair my marriage but I don't want to do it in a manner that costs me my self-respect and the respect of my daughter. There doesn't seem to be any point to talk with her anymore based on everything anyway. If memory serves, I was a lot more jovial when I wasn't in contact with her.
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I don't see anything to feel threatened about in her actions. Its all saber-rattling.
Maybe, but then again, she's obviously getting anxious about wanting to date. She has mentioned that every time we talk.
Thanks very much for your input.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!