Got it. What about combining with W on Christmas gifts for the kids. She had wanted to do that to save money. Do I or not? It would allow me to save money as well and get the kids a better gift. Thoughts?
Mine are buy the gifts yourself. But prepare for the mood and nasty response when you do. Remember she wanted to separate, not you. The sooner she stops cake eating and puts on her 'big girl pants' (thanks Coach) the sooner she will realise what the separation and D will mean for her.
The sooner you do a 180 and act like you are separated, the quicker things will change.
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Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
