feel like giving up - talk to me!

[soleil]

I don't want to love someone who purposely hurts me and doesn't care about my feelings. That's why I am so sad lately.

Focus on that. Over and over again. You deserve the best.

Your threads always make me thirsty for happy hour, thanks for Mindfull.

Are you going to counselling by yourself? I can't remember...

[Gnosis]

Listen to me Luv,

You go out to ENJOY yourself. You go out to GAL. You go out to take a break. You do NOT go out to make him jealous.

The benefit of going out is that you become a happier person, you continue LIVING... when he sees that it makes him wonder... Just like you are wondering and letting your mind screw you over. I've been there, done that... and am now returning the favor. How that affects Mrs Gno does not matter. Whether she gets angry or not... is not my problem until she indicates that she is interested in resolving our issues.

[Gnosis]

I don't want to love someone who purposely hurts me and doesn't care about my feelings. That's why I am so sad lately.

Are you sure that he is bent on purposefully hurting you?

Is is perhaps possible that he has NO IDEA how to please you?

EDIT: One final question...

Is it possible that your actions are PUSHING him away because he feels rejected by you?

[luvless]

You are right G - God I hate when you are right!

It will be for me and not the purpose to piss him off (although it is an extra perk)

Best thing you've said yet - my mind is screwing me over!

and Sol - no counseling yet but sure am thinking of it since I live with an emotionally abusive man. Yeah there's a reason they call it happy hour.

[luvless]

I don't want to love someone who purposely hurts me and doesn't care about my feelings. That's why I am so sad lately.

Are you sure that he is bent on purposefully hurting you?

Is is perhaps possible that he has NO IDEA how to please you?

EDIT: One final question...

Is it possible that your actions are PUSHING him away because he feels rejected by you?

THIS makes alot of sense G - Yeah I've thought about this and if he's not having an EA or PA - this is what's going on inside of him Plus his MLC.

[Bridgestone]

Is he entitled to be emotionally abusive beacuse he doesn't know how to please her?

Is it possible she's pushing him away because he's emotionally & verbally abusive?

Which is an appropriate action to the circumstances?

It IS appropriate to set a boundary when someone is emotionally & verbally abusive. It is NOT appropriate to be emotionally & verbally abusive because you "feel" that you can't please your spouse.

[Gnosis]

Luv, are you sure you're not my wife?

[luvless]

Are you sure you're not my wife?

I tell my H this all the time...."we're all the same." (wink)

[mindfull]

Drive by Hi LuV! I'm out shopping! Makin' sure you're ok!

[luvless]

Luv Ya Mind

Thanks for looking in on me..I should be shopping with you!