I guess I will bring up the school issue first, get some leverage, create a benefit. She has been saying to everyone, 'school comes first'. But like its been said on here a 1000 times, its not what they say, its what they do her priorities are so selfish. I just don't think my kids should be getting out of school a few days early prior to a two week break from school, especially if one has been struggling a bit.
Then I will hammer out the future schedule a bit, which she won't like either. Oh well.
Sorry about the wedding. That would be a rock in my shoe. Even though I don't see any way for me to accept xw again, it would still not feel right.
Funny thing my daughter told me - "mommy is keeping your last name when she gets married because she still loves you". Either my daughter has something confused or old man Ed is getting a new wife that is still stuck on me somewhat. Crazy.
Funny thing my daughter told me - "mommy is keeping your last name when she gets married because she still loves you". Either my daughter has something confused or old man Ed is getting a new wife that is still stuck on me somewhat. Crazy.
Wouldn't that be 'nice' though? <evil grin>
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
Ed can't be comfortable with that. But I'm sure she spun it somehow that makes him feel good.
Ran into OM again this morning running my daughter by xw house to drop something off. He was in driveway loading his car as if hed been on vacation over there. He walked out in front of my car as if I wasn't there, so I punched it. He wasn't expecting that. Pee his pants event #2. I wasn't anywhere near him, but you get the idea. On his way back to the house we had a little ali-frazier stare down. Guess he had to reassert his toughness after peeing his pants infront of his mistress.
Anyway, the point of this is how comfortable can this guy be knowing there's some lunatic roaming out there like a great white shark that he's going to have to run into now and then? It just can't be all that great for him. His mother and brother have dunped him, all his friends in his old neighborhood have bailed on him, and is w can't stand him he told his w that he's really unhappy at work. Life is great.
Ok, go ahead, I'm waiting for the 'move on' 2x4. It ok. I am trying, but all these things keep getting presented to me. Parenting issues, OM, etc. I didn't seek them out but they keep finding me.
I now have a long stretch without my kids. The longest since this has all happened and will be my first xmas without them. My emotions are going to be all over the place I'm sure.
He walked out in front of my car as if I wasn't there, so I punched it. He wasn't expecting that. Pee his pants event #2. I wasn't anywhere near him, but you get the idea. On his way back to the house we had a little ali-frazier stare down. Guess he had to reassert his toughness after peeing his pants infront of his mistress.
T, you crack me up. Again, I don't care who says what. That made me laugh.
If you are going to keep doing this though, he is going to have to reassert himself at some point. He's a man, you know he is going to have to do it. When he does, it may get ugly. Are you prepared to back down or not?
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Anyway, the point of this is how comfortable can this guy be knowing there's some lunatic roaming out there like a great white shark that he's going to have to run into now and then? It just can't be all that great for him. His mother and brother have dunped him, all his friends in his old neighborhood have bailed on him, and is w can't stand him he told his w that he's really unhappy at work. Life is great.
That's not your problem anymore though, is it?
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Ok, go ahead, I'm waiting for the 'move on' 2x4. It ok. I am trying, but all these things keep getting presented to me. Parenting issues, OM, etc. I didn't seek them out but they keep finding me.
You're not looking for them T. You deal with them as you find them. You've got my vote!
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I now have a long stretch without my kids. The longest since this has all happened and will be my first xmas without them. My emotions are going to be all over the place I'm sure.
I feel for you T. Any family or friends you can be with? Will you be able to call the kids?
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Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
I won't be backing down. There's too much hatred inside for this guy. I haven't kicked the crap out of anyone since high school, but if it came to that, I'd go all out. Sorry, just how I feel.
I was doing some stuff at home yesterday and all I could do was wonder if he had been here before, in my house with xw. My hunch is yes.
I am going to my parents for a few days.
Xw keeps referring to me as 'unhappy'. Yes, things aren't all that great for me now, but compared to om, his life seems miserable. Why can't she see that? My point is he has nothing but her, so he will hold on as tight as possible.
I won't be backing down. There's too much hatred inside for this guy. I haven't kicked the crap out of anyone since high school, but if it came to that, I'd go all out. Sorry, just how I feel.
You're a big boy and can make big boy decisions. If nobody else will, I'll bail you out
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I am going to my parents for a few days.
Good. A change of scenery and all that!
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Why can't she see that?
She's in love. Maybe she doesn't want to see it. Maybe you are wrong?
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My point is he has nothing but her, so he will hold on as tight as possible.
Maybe that's what she wants. Then again, maybe that's all she can get? A loser. OM's usually seem to be losers, do they not?
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
