The adventure chronicles

[AFWAW]

I was kind of wavering about whether you should just take this woman off or not but you can't do it now. No way. She is playing a game. If you let her win, you've had it.

Yep, I've been wavering on this as well. Trying to figure out whether it's really going to make a difference and don't think that it will. It all points to her wanting to control the sitch even after she has done.

Bad. Don't get into a discussion about this. CS is a legal AND moral obligation. Why debate it with her. Somebody who tells you she is not paying for her kids because you have a friend on FB is not quite with the rest of us here on planet normal. No point arguing with her. She won't listen, you'll get frustrated and ... well you know the rest.

yep, got that. I was just a bit flustered when she said this about CS. I have the feeling based on comments she has made that she has strecthed herself pretty thin financially--could be the reason for this. Not a good reason, but a reason.

She has a chip on her shoulder and she will not back down about it. She needs to control the situation. She needs to control you.

What are you explaining how you bring your kids up at home? When she left, she left that responsibility too. She pays maintenance, you take care of the kids the best you can and spend that money wisely. End of story.

Good point. I didn't think of it like that.

No effing way.

She has a chip on her shoulder and she will not back down about it. She needs to control the situation. She needs to control you. This OW on FB is WAAAY more than just a woman you have chatted to. You take this woman off FB and you're history - she owns you. And that's not attractive. You keep her on, you'll get more and more of this and you show her YOU own YOU. That is attractive.

That's my take as well but it is refreshing to hear someone say. Got it.

Thanks very much for your candid remarks. I appreciate the input.