How does D feel about MIL and FIL? Does she miss them, enjoy their company?
She did before. More MIL than FIL (she always saw him as scary - he is a tall bloke with scary hair :)). D isn't sure about it. She said she didn't want to and I asked her why but she didn't know. I think it may be because of W. Will dig a little deeper when the time is right.
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If you did want to set up some kind of visiting contact, where would they meet up?
They could meet up here and I would let them take her out as I do trust them. Boundary is no contact with W. If that is broken, contact stops.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"