He walked out in front of my car as if I wasn't there, so I punched it. He wasn't expecting that. Pee his pants event #2. I wasn't anywhere near him, but you get the idea. On his way back to the house we had a little ali-frazier stare down. Guess he had to reassert his toughness after peeing his pants infront of his mistress.
T, you crack me up. Again, I don't care who says what. That made me laugh.
If you are going to keep doing this though, he is going to have to reassert himself at some point. He's a man, you know he is going to have to do it. When he does, it may get ugly. Are you prepared to back down or not?
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Anyway, the point of this is how comfortable can this guy be knowing there's some lunatic roaming out there like a great white shark that he's going to have to run into now and then? It just can't be all that great for him. His mother and brother have dunped him, all his friends in his old neighborhood have bailed on him, and is w can't stand him he told his w that he's really unhappy at work. Life is great.
That's not your problem anymore though, is it?
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Ok, go ahead, I'm waiting for the 'move on' 2x4. It ok. I am trying, but all these things keep getting presented to me. Parenting issues, OM, etc. I didn't seek them out but they keep finding me.
You're not looking for them T. You deal with them as you find them. You've got my vote!
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I now have a long stretch without my kids. The longest since this has all happened and will be my first xmas without them. My emotions are going to be all over the place I'm sure.
I feel for you T. Any family or friends you can be with? Will you be able to call the kids?
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Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
