Don't be surprised if even after you have sent them out from just you, people send them to you and H. then you just of have to bite the bullet and say it. I have never wanted to come across as bitter or vindictive, but also didn't want people to not know the truth. I just kind of say, it was hard to stay married when H thought he would die without his affair partner.

I think he told most of his friends that we had grown apart or were fighting...not a peep about little H hunting and finding a new playmate!!

kat


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