Problem now is that I feel that D's mum may have feelings for me. At least she is a bit more clingy and is asking me to spend a lot of time with her. She is getting jealous when I got out to lunch without her. We are spending Xmas day together with the kids.
I suspected this...it's why I never stay in touch with exes BUT since you have a D together, I totally see why you are in touch.
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Don't see me having an R with her, but if I did M would be over as W hates D's mum. The good news is that if I did have an R with D's mum, W would be so filled with anger and rage that she would just explode (a bit like the devil guy at the end of Time Bandits).
Do people see you with D's mum who know W? If so, when was last time they saw you together? Jealousy does remind us that we have feelings for the other person. BUT it is a double edged sword as I feel it could cause the other person to retaliate with anger. Since you can't get a D for 2 years, there is little W could do in regard to ending your marriage legally, right? So she gets ticked off and explodes, then time goes on. Her relationship with OM will end and then what? Sorry to ramble. I am not helping you to forget about W.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
