I wonder if W is starting to see consequences of her actions yet.
Her actions will tell you if she is. Otherwise let the mind-reading begin.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Hi Dia! How am I? I'm all over the place. W .over out about 3 weeks ago. She still says she doesn't know what she wants. I told her to just go ahead and D me when she dropped S off Saturdays. She said she wasn't planning on it. I'm sure that I don't want this version of her back though.
TONIGHT: S had a school event tonight. W asked if I would take him even though it is her night for him. When I was there to pick him up W asked how my day was. I gave my standard "fine, yours?" answer.
She said she was having a hard day today. I said I was sorry, tuned to leave, turned back around, and gave her a hug. The thanked me and was receptive.
It may seem that she is sad about what she has done, but when she has been sad in the recent last it was actually more sad that she is stuck...
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
I can handle it, but it's bringing me down. That sense of loss seems to keep coming back even this far into it.
Practice flirting. Well, maybe not at the office Christmas party. But, mingle with people, make conversation. If you throuw yourself into that, you probably won't even realize your W isn't there.
