Will establish one night a week to spend some just us time with H when he is home
Time will be used to let him know how much I appreciate him, changes in our marriage, and this second chance we are getting...also, will ask for what I want/need during that time...and will make sure it is time that we both enjoy...doing something fun together!
This way can have R talk without it being nagging or unpleasant....focus on good and ask for what I need/want but do so in a loving manner and make sure that time is pleasant..that way when asking for what I want or need, he will be more inclined to give it to me, too!
