It took me a while to learn that limboland might be a temporary place to gather your thoughts, get your bearings, then decide how to proceed, but it is not a place to remain. You know, like closing time for a bar - you don't have to go home but you can't stay here.
This made me LOL. Love the 'closing call' comparison.
Originally Posted By: tryingtilDorR
TDR: "you need to leave if you continue to do what you have been doign with him. I have asked several times"
W: "If you don't like it you can leave"
That is such a crock. You don't have to go anywhere. That is your house.
Originally Posted By: tryingtilDorR
About a half hour later I got the following text messages after I had left the house:
Quote:
I think I'll call him today to let him know u r constantly trying to get in his past and to apologize to him for what being friends has caused
I thought this was classic. She always call him a 'friend' and all this turmoil is just because she ahd a 'friend'. I laughed when I read this since it sounds so ridiculous.
It is ridiculous and stupid that she's coming to her "friend's" defense. I wouldn't even respond to those things if I were you.