[quote]I am not using the bills as a way to communicate with her. It is actually frusturating knowing each month we are going to have to discuss them. I just also don't want to push closer to the end of things in my own mind.
K, you know your own mind better than we do. I have to say however I don't believe you. First rule in this is to admit to yourself what you are really doing.
I know. I've been there and I did it. That's why I know you are doing it to.
If you are not using it as a way to communicate with her, then split them.
As CityGirl said, she is already with other men and not living with you. How much further do you think splitting the bills will actually push her? She's already about as far away from you as she can be.
Split the bills. Do it today. Get it out of your head. Drop the rope and move forward with YOU.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
