BTW, anyone else having FB issues this morning? I log on, but its a blank screen.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
I thought it was my computer. try going to "profile" instead of home--worked for me.
That was it! Thanks!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Tonight he invited us to Xmas Day at his sisters. I told him we would go. My family always does Xmas Eve so Xmas Day is not busy at all. I know he just wants baby there but I am part of the package. This time the family that enable him will be there. They think he hasn't done anything wrong. Not looking forward to this one but oh well....we will make it.
Sounds like you are in the same position as me for Christmas. We will make it through together. It will be uncomfortable for both of us, but we can do it. Be strong.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
The guy is really trying to sleep with me. UGGH! Wanted to know if I had my older kids tonight as he wanted to come and stay here. I said where? On the couch right? He said no, with you. I said sorry charlie, no booty call here. He said it was no booty call. Yeah right.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
The guy is really trying to sleep with me. UGGH! Wanted to know if I had my older kids tonight as he wanted to come and stay here. I said where? On the couch right? He said no, with you. I said sorry charlie, no booty call here. He said it was no booty call. Yeah right.
LOL. I don't know what to say. I would take the booty call if my W were offering. But then I am a guy to. lol. Stay strong and don't be the booty call.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
The guy is really trying to sleep with me. UGGH! Wanted to know if I had my older kids tonight as he wanted to come and stay here. I said where? On the couch right? He said no, with you. I said sorry charlie, no booty call here. He said it was no booty call. Yeah right.
LOL. I don't know what to say. I would take the booty call if my W were offering. But then I am a guy to. lol. Stay strong and don't be the booty call.
Kevin
I don't know what to say either. I won't go there...came too close once before. I guess with MGF out of the picture he is getting needy again. Heck, its been a long time for me too but so do not want to be his booty call.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
The guy is really trying to sleep with me. UGGH! Wanted to know if I had my older kids tonight as he wanted to come and stay here. I said where? On the couch right? He said no, with you. I said sorry charlie, no booty call here. He said it was no booty call. Yeah right.
Please don't give in.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
Exh sent a text asking if he could skip this months cs as he is broke. I told him no and I was sorry.
Now we will see if he gets nasty. Could this be the reason for the niceness?
Bugs me that he asks me...the single mother to skip cs. His other exw is getting hers PLUS he is paying d13's orthodontics bill every month, AND d15 and 13 cel phones. She is married to a very wealthy guy, not that is any excuse anyway. But I am the single mother, not her.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Exh sent a text asking if he could skip this months cs as he is broke. I told him no and I was sorry.
Now we will see if he gets nasty. Could this be the reason for the niceness?
That is very interesting. I think you are right. That could be exactly what it was. I guess we will find out.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
