Sorry this back and forth is happening with your H. Until you know for sure if he is having an EA or PA, you're going to rack your brains out, sadly.
Could be that he's just being a d-ck, though.
My H would always get upset if I went out and would use it against me, too. But God forbid if I asked him where he was going and with whom. He would always say "I don't know." Double standards!
