So sorry you are going through all of this and that you didn't get to say what you wanted to the judge in response to your H's lies. My guess that the driving force behind your H not wanting you to get much is skank. I'm sure she wants it all. Eventually he will see her for what she is.
Just keep strong in your faith that things will work out for your best. It is awesome that you have a guy interested in you and like others said, you will know when the time is right and you are ready for that. I'm sure having that interest is a good ego boost!
No matter what happens through all of this, I know your future will be great. You have been faithful and you have done your best and done what was right. I know for me through all of this yuck I have found that the times I have relied heavily on God and been faithful to Him, I have been blessed abundantly. I don't know how things will turn out for me regarding my M, but I do know that I have gained so much good (in myself, my relationships with others especially my kids, my faith, etc.) that I can't complain about that!
Keep posting so we can keep up. Do you have any plans for Christmas? Treat yourself!
