So after MC yesterday it became pretty clear (finally) that my H needs some IC first. He's in a very low spot. All three of us agreed to this as well. So we are stopping MC for now. I looked at a townhome last night. In a sense I feel as though I need to continue moving forward and not sit around and wait for him to come around anymore. If he does great, if not well my son and I are already on our way ....problem is we are separated now....and need the child support to be OK in the townhome. Not sure what to do............in a way I feel as though he wants out of the marriage, there will be some consequences...he may have to sell some things or cancel some thingto pay child support. Then on the other hand I feel like will this be one more thing to put him over the edge.....there's the codpendent in me.
