Hey all! Well, went for my biopsy and GREAT NEWS so far all appears negative for return of breast cancer! My H was supportive and really there for me.... I am so excited. My son is home again and I have decided to try and stay out of his and H's relationship... letting them solve their own problems...and they are getting along great! They have been playing Mario Golf in the evenings while I am at bible study or AA meetings! I know that God, AA, my sponsor, all of you great folks here and DB'ing have gotten me to this place....now I have to focus on doing the work to keep this good stuff going! Reminding self to stay focused on me and what I can change about myself to make things better around me is the biggest task I face daily....it's so easy to want to fix others...but working on ourselves provides much better results! H is at work for three weeks this time...has not decided whether or not to take vacation over Christmas alone...I have decided to support whatever decision he makes...if he needs a vacation and wants to go see his family without me and son...that's ok. I'd rather he spend Christmas with us, but am not going to push my agenda...let him make his mind up and do what he really wants to do!
Thanks again for all the support I have gotten here......it helps so much!
