Thanks Gnosis. Yeah, I can't quite figure out what going on with her, but like you said, I shouldn't even try. I agree with you that she wasn't quite jealous at the basketball game. She doesn't know enough to be jealous, but she definitely wanted to know what was going on. I have no idea how she would have reacted had the other woman been sitting with us, playing with HER kids. Funny, she goes from spewing and the silent treatment to being friendly and walking all the way across the stadium to come by and say hi. Guess she wasn't that interested in watching the game!

I will hold the line at mediation. I have my points all written out and ready to discuss. I am committing myself to showing no anger at all, but sticking to my points. The financials do not look good for her at all!