Shrug?! Nice. Sometimes I wonder if you are purposefully obtuse.
I was shrugging at the thought of what you had said SG. Just not something I really want to do.
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You are not ever going to get your wife back until you stop WANTING your wife back. She is a want, not a need. The more you need her, the less likely you will have her.
I know. I have to stop feeling like I need her. I don't know if I will ever get to the point where I don't want her back though.
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You may not want to date, but you do need to start acting like a divorced father of 2. Live your own life. Let her live hers without interference from you. You know you have no chance to get her back until you mentally get to the point where YOU no longer want HER, so what's stopping you?
Fear sometimes.
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You have to, Kevin. It's your only hope.
You're right. I have to tackle my fear of letting go completely.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
