Yep. You really need to split the bills. My H and I have already done that, and we aren't even 2 months into it.
*shrug*
Kevin
Shrug?! Nice. Sometimes I wonder if you are purposefully obtuse. You are not ever going to get your wife back until you stop WANTING your wife back. She is a want, not a need. The more you need her, the less likely you will have her.
You may not want to date, but you do need to start acting like a divorced father of 2. Live your own life. Let her live hers without interference from you. You know you have no chance to get her back until you mentally get to the point where YOU no longer want HER, so what's stopping you?