K4D Rising #4

[K4D]

How is taking control or YOUR finances and protecting your credit (not having bills paid late) moving closer to a D? It's ironic that you feel separating finances would be the final straw yet the fact that you haven't lived together in some time AND she is with other men don't seem final to you.

No, I don't consider it final just because she is with other men. It is current circumstances. Circumstances can change with time.

It's a control issue with you. As long as you and your W still have something joint then you have a shred of something shared with her.

I haven't looked at it as a control issue. More of a hope issue. But maybe it is a control issue that I am not making myself aware of.

And you are correct, you should have never called her about the book for your daughter/how to fill out the form and payment. How hard could the form be to fill out? A while back my H e-mailed me asking me where he should go to get the car inspected, lol. Men that can't figure out simple tasks *are* annoying.

I can fill out the form. I was needing to know how she wanted to pay for it and how many she wanted and exactly what she wanted.

This is why many of us feel you come across as needy. If you wanted your W and daughter to work out the book issue why did you get on the phone with her at all?

D7 can't fill out the form. She didn't quite know what she was doing.

Kevin