Get the bills halved. Get her to pay HER bills from HER account and you pay YOURS. I know what you are doing. I tried to do it but W was smarter than me. You are trying to use the bills as a medium to hold onto W and to give you a reason to communicate with her. Admit it and don't be ashamed of it.
However, you need to stop it.
I am not using the bills as a way to communicate with her. It is actually frusturating knowing each month we are going to have to discuss them. I just also don't want to push closer to the end of things in my own mind.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...