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Get the bills halved. Get her to pay HER bills from HER account and you pay YOURS. I know what you are doing. I tried to do it but W was smarter than me. You are trying to use the bills as a medium to hold onto W and to give you a reason to communicate with her. Admit it and don't be ashamed of it.

However, you need to stop it.


I am not using the bills as a way to communicate with her. It is actually frusturating knowing each month we are going to have to discuss them. I just also don't want to push closer to the end of things in my own mind.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...