I have posted in the Newcomers area, but would like to solicit more advice. My wife is in a MLC. Over the past year and a half it has been a rollercoaster: staying, separating, divorce. She changed her mind every two months. She finally moved out a month ago. She does seem much happier.
I had limited contact with her over the month. Nothing about R or wanting her back. I did enough of that while we were still together.
She started calling me. The last couple conversations, I kept trying to get off the phone or leave her place, but she kept pulling me back in. So, I thought maybe the neg. perceptions/walls she was holding so close are starting to fade. I asked her on a date. She said yes.
Have any of you experienced this? What are good moves/mistakes you made? Or, should I cancel?
I have gotten great advice. But, the more I get the better I feel. Thanks
