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K, do you not see how needy this makes you look? Do you wonder why your W is frustrated? She feels she is dealing with 3 kids here, you included! She is even telling you this!

When the kids are with you, you deal with this type of stuff, that's your job. You are not with your W right now, so don't call her about this mundane cr*p! You could show your the leader here, pay for the book, have the form filled out, and processed, if you have questions about it, call the people that are involved with the form, not your W.

You should tackle this stuff on your own, you have 0 chance of your W ever getting respect back for you while you do things like this. But you also need to realize that you do these things for you and your kids, not to show you W some changes! If she notices, well that's good, but count on her not noticing, and just do them because you need to!


Yes. I agree that I should have handled it myself. It didn't come off looking very good that I didn't. My thought was if she had told D7 she was going to do it and it was due today, then she needed to take care of it with D7. But in reality, I should have just taken care of it and moved on.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...