Read what you just wrote. YOU ARE STILL THINKING SHE IS GOING TO ACT RATIONALLY right now. "If I do 'x', she'll respond 'y'."
NOT GOING TO HAPPEN.
Yes, sometimes you get a faux remorse, but it's just that -- FAKE. And you may still see it yet, once she sees that bile and distance isn't working.
And yes, her attorney probably told her to just stay away and not communicate right now.
She is seething with ENTITLEMENT right now, and as sick as it is, her basic mindset right now is "YOU SPOILED MY FUN! YOU RUINED MY AFFAIR!" I have read where some spouses have even VOICED that to their betrayed spouse, how sick is that??!
