Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Ok, been thinking about something.
I have been doing all of the things I should be doing, but all I am seeing is more anger and hatred from her.

I mean, she knows that I know about the OM, was it a good thing to do that? I didn't get the response I thought it would. Well, there was NO response from her. Now, that could be because her L told her to stop communicating with me.

She is dark towards me-is this normal too? I really thought she would contact me-trying to explain herself-or go into denial mode.

Besides working on me, and the boys, what other db'ng tactics can I be working on? I want to follow the plan, and get myself straight.