K4D Rising #4

[K4D]

You spend so much time thinking about what you should or should not do when you have an exchange with your W. You do understand you cannot control what sort of person she is, how she parents or any other aspect of her, right?

Yes, I understand this and I don't try to control who she is or what kind of parent she is. That comment just bothered me last night. I should have just handled it for D7. But I was letting her and her mom work it out and then I will filling out the form based on what W said. I should have just filled it out and gave D7 the check and if W chose to reimburse she does, if not she doesn't.

Wasn't it just a few days ago that you sent her multiple texts (RE: bill payment) and when she didn't respond you called her?

Yes. I was trying to get our bills paid. I have been holding off on splitting everything up for us I guess in hopes of things turning back around at some point. Plus I haven't wanted to push us closer to D and felt that if I split everything that is left that it might push us closer to D.

All this speculating about why her phone said her IM came from her phone and it showed up as "mobile". Who cares? Why waste your time wondering when there is no way to know? Why worry so much about who is sitting where at an event for your child? If you have a seat and you are there to support your kid that is all you need to concern yourself with.

It wasn't that so much as she was telling me she was at home and her phone said otherwise. It shouldn't have been a thought for me. I guess it just was because the 2 didn't match. Funny enough, D7 asked W where she was to because it didn't sound to her like W was at home either. That was without me saying anything. But again, it didn't matter and I shouldn't have put any thought into it. It should have been "who cares".

Kevin