HINT[/u]: If you're worried about the second thing, you'll never accomplish the first thing.[/b]
When you're more concerned with doing The Right Thing to Do; what would God Himself have me do, if He were standing right here in front of me? -- rather than "will that make her angry? How will her anger make ME feel?" . . . then you will have arrived at where you need to be to get started.
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This is why this forum is so valuable. It allows you to not rely on your own emotional, irrational thinking by taking yourself out of the equation and gaining some neutral, insightful, suggestions.
I am too worried about her thoughts, needs, feelings. Old things die hard. I have to worry more about me.
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
