Originally Posted By: rob668
ok. what about doing things together?? today she wants to take me for a foot massage and then get a christmas tree?? BTW..yes, everything seems counter-intuitive but i trust you guys.


Can you handle spending time with her and have no R talk?

If you can, go and enjoy yourself. Stay upbeat. Have fun. Laugh. Don't be pursuing though. Be interested in what she says but not nosey. Listen to her and just enjoy yourself.

Most of all, try and relax. Very important.

Remember no R talk at all.

See here for 180's http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1701511#Post1701511

Last edited by P17; 12/16/09 02:59 PM.
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