He wants us to do a loan modification on our home mortgage. I rent a house and he is living in our house. If we do the modification I will still be on the loan and he will not be able to buy my 1/2 of the house for a long time and if he defaults on the loan I am also liable.
I just don't think I can do this with him and I know he is going to be upset. But I have to do what is best for me. He sure isn't! I think I will tell him after the holidays. I am not going to ruin my holiday because of him.
I would still love to see him sometimes but it does hurt because of what he says and does. I think I need to take a few steps back from him.
I don't bring up our relationship whenever I talk to him but he is constantly throwing it in my face that we are over and we are only friends. I keep telling him I understand that. Last night I even told him I didn't want to be with him. At that moment I didn't. He seems to be on edge a lot lately.
