I rescheduled my appt with the lawyer for tomorrow. I needed to get more info for filing. I want to be totally prepared for this.
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Luckily, I didn't get any other emails from WAH. I hated going back through emails to print out to take to the lawyer. I hate seeing all the lies and how gullible and stupid I was. Yep, seeing how darn ugly it's going to get.
Don't beat yourself up about it. You were in love and trusted him. You're not gullible. He broke the trust. He eroded the love. You're just dealing with it!
It will only get as ugly as you allow it. Let him throw his toys from the pram. Let him shout and scream and cry like a baby. Just saying nothing, turn around and walk away. Let the lawyer deal with it. That's what he is there for.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"