K4D Rising #4

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SG, thanks for clearing that up. I really wasn't getting it.

CG, not smothering W. I probably ought to chill out on the mind reading though.

So last night went well for the most part. I picked up D7 and met W at the house since D12 wanted W to curl her hair. I got us dinner and waited and then took D7 and D12 to the choir performance that D12 was singing in at school since we had to be there a half hour early. W asked me to save her a seat so I did. W got there right as it started and we had D7 sitting between us. I noticed W looked at me a couple of times. When it was over we parted ways at the cars.

Later on in the evening D7 called W to ask W if she was going to pay for a book she ordered that was due today and how. Then D12 also wanted to talk to W for a minute so she did. Then I had to get on the phone with W to get the details so I could fill out the form for W and D7. W was frusturated and told me they had called her earlier. I said I was not aware of that. Then W said if the girls are not with her, she doesn't need to be bothered.

Ok. Are you a mom or not? Do your kids that you brought in the world no longer exist to you unless they are with you now? That comment kind of pissed me off. I don't usually bother her and try to keep the kids from doing so, but dang, what kind of comment is that?

So I got off the phone with her and a short while later she sent me a text saying sorry, and that she has a headache and is trying to rest and feel better at home. Of course her IM on her phone status that she typed in said that she was mobile which she places on it when she is not home or at work. So I am not sure that I bought the story of her being home alone. Not that it matters.

But I couldn't believe that comment.

SM, I enjoy the challenge of thinking you provide. I guess I just wasn't getting that one.

Tonight D12 has a karate competition at school for her gold belt. I think W's mom is going to be there. W will have to get there early with D12 tonight. Should I ask her to save me a seat or say nothing and just show up and sit where ever? I'd like to be able to sit with D7 and W like last night. But I am not sure that W will want to save me a seat if her mom is planning on being there.

Kevin