African Violets: The less you handle them, the more they flourish and grow. If you fuss over them they will live but not thrive.
IOW, stop fussing over your W, stop mind reading, speculating and trying to figure out why she does what and do what you need to do for you. When you smother an AV they tend to die quickly as they don't need as much attention as the general non-African Violet loving population tends to think.
