My W told me almost this very thing several weekends ago. She said that she had to leave to get away from the guilt. I agree that once her A is finally over and the fog clears, having to process all that guilt will be VERY difficult.
Do you not feel that the fear of having to deal with the guilt will actually keep them in the A longer?
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
